For anyone who has experienced tantric sex, you will probably be familiar with the concept of tantric massage therapy. Lingam massage, where the therapist gives her male client an amazing wank, is a kind of tantric massage therapy that focuses on massaging the penis.
In this type of erotic and sensual massage, the goal of lingam massage isn’t to simply have an orgasm and a really strong cum. Rather, the aim is to create a deeper sexual and spiritual experience.
In the next few paragraphs, we’ll take a look at what a lingam massage is, how to actually stroke a cock and balls and do a lingam massage on yourself or your partner, and then consider some of the benefits of this type of tantric erotic massage therapy.
Tantric erotic massage has long been used as a way to help develop sexual and spiritual awareness. Unlike many interpretations of this tradition, tantric techniques are not purely about sex. The idea is to go deeper than that. Tantric erotic massage therapy also means learning how to build up the innnate sexual energy in order to experience a purer feeling of pleasure.
Lingam massage, which is derived from the Sanskrit word for “penis”, is a style of tantric erotic massage that focuses on massaging the penis and all the sensitive areas around it. The specific areas that are caressed and massaged are:
- penis
- testicles
- perineum (the area between the anus and scrotum)
- it the man is willing, even prostate
The goal of lingam massage isn’t only to reach orgasm and to cum. The ultimate intent is to experience a higher level of full-body sexual and spiritual ecstacy.
How to perform a lingam massage
Being knowledgeable about technique is important for not only lingam massage but all types of tantric massage.
Here’s the best technique for how to perform a lingam massage on yourself or your partner.
Setting the right mood
Creating a relaxed and positive atmosphere, along with a matching mindset will make a lingam massage a much more enjoyable experience for both the massuesse and the man having his cock and balls massaged.
Even before the erotic massage begins, aim to make sure to take time to set the intentions for the session create an open mindset. This will do much to establish the emotional mood of the erotic massage and allow both participants to enjoy the experience as something that is equally spiritual and sexual.
To create a “sacred” physical space that’s warm and inviting:
- always use clean and fresh bedding.
- dim the lights and light some aromatic candles.
- put on soothing and meditative music ata low volume.
Doing this will create a comfortable and sensual environment before starting the lingham massage.
Use High Quality Massage Oils
Massage oils help reduce friction and increase sensation during a massage. There is a wide choice of massage oils available and the aim is to choose a selection , including those without fragrances as some clients might appreciate a dgree of discretion, depending on their personal cicumstances.
If you aim to use your mouth, depending on the services you offer, you should aslo choose oils that you like the taste of. For a tantric erotic lingam massage, a scented oil can really add to the experience and help increase both sensual awareness and sexual arousal. Whatever oil you choose, make sure it’s something natural and hypoallergenic, especially for people with sensitive skin. The most popular natural oils include:
- olive oil
- coconut oil
- almond oil
For a Good Vibe – Start slowly
The key is to build the sensual experience in stages, effectively foreplay. Start the massage by focusing on the peripheral areas, not the cock itself, specifically the:
- lower abdomen.
- upper thighs.
- inner thighs.
Using an alternating combination of firm pressure and light strokes, move your hands slowly across the skin, starting to build a tension and setting the stage for a sensual experience.
If you’re giving a cock massage to a familiar partner and you know their erogenous zones, focusing on these areas can also spark that initial pleasure without moving too fast.
Remember, the goal of lingam massage is to take it slow and build the experience by including a range of pleasurable and erotic sensations.
Working your Way Up
Once you have spent a little time warming him him, it will be time to move your way from the erogenous zones to the more sensitive and directly sexual areas. Start with the testicles, taking care to massage this area as gently as possible. Use a variety of techniques, gently pulling the scrotum, scratching gentlty with your nails as well as rubbing and cupping the ball sack.
If you or your partner enjoys it, the perineum can also be another sensual area to explore with touch and carressing.
When you’re ready to move on, and you can see he has a rock hard erection, move your massage to focus on the bottom of the penis shaft, using gentle stroking motions. More a caress than a wank. Slide you havd up and move toward the top of the shaft and the head of the penis, working slowly but intentionally.
Maybe Slip a Finger In
If he has expressed an interest, and only if he has consented to it, consider adding a little sensual prostate stimulation to the lingam massage.
(To find the prostate, gently insert a finger into his anus and angle the tip of your finger to the front of his body. Once you’ve located it, just use gentle pressure to stimulate the area. For some guys, this kind of prostate stimulation can even lead to a pleasurable prostate orgasm. )
Practice restraint
For the majority of the erotic massage, when you get the feeling his orgasm is approaching, pull back and focus on another area. This is what’s known as edging, and using it throughout the massage for as long as you or your partner enjoys it will really build the tension and pleasure.
If either you or your partner orgasm early in the massage, which can happen if he hasn’t cum in a while and/or is finding the whole erotic massage just too good, that’s OK too. This doesnlt mean the massge is over as a sensual lingam massage can still be pleasurable even after an orgasm has been reached, and it is normal for a man to cum a second (or even third time) if time permits.
Savor the experience
A good erotic lingham massage, when given expertly, can even lead to invoking a trance-like state. Even though the cous is on the hard cock, the associated full-body pleasure that is experienced is often enough to reach that state and can feel spiritual as well as sexual. This is what makes a tantric practice so much more fulfilling for both people involved, and you can make the most of this type of experience by:
- taking it nice and slowly.
- being aware and present in your own body.
- freely allowing both you or person being massaged to experience both the sexual and spiritual nature of tantric massage
What are the benefits of a lingam massage?
While a lingam erotic massage is primarliy a highly charged sexual experience, there are also many additional benefits, beyond just simple pleasure. It is also believed that lingam massages can:
- Do much to promote full body healing. Despite the sexual nature of a tantric practiceof like the lingam massage, the experience is also intended to work on the body as a whole and promote healing.
- Relieve stress throughout the body. It’s generally accepted that any form of sex benefits the body and mind, with effects such as increased libido and reduced risk of chronic diseases. When you taje part in a lingam massage, you’re combining these known benefits with the stress-relieving relaxation of more general massage therapy.
- Improve your sexual stamina and increase you sexual experiences. Whatever your reason to take part in a lingham massage, the benefits are that you will naturally get from the holding back and edging that are part of the experience will increase your sexual stamina and learning to enjoy sex more.
- Begin to explore spirituality and mindfulness. This can happen to people who don’t normally follow a spiritual or medative path. Experiencing something in the moment, just as it’s intended, is an example of mindfulness and happens naturally when you are fully engaged with someone stroking and handling your hard cock with such expertise.
Sensual Samantha 